May 29, 2010

送给儿子的备忘录

香港電臺知名主持人梁繼璋----送給兒子的備忘錄(下輩子都不會再見)

   
香港電臺知名主持人梁繼璋曾給兒子寫過一封信,這封信很快流傳於各大網站,很多父親看後感觸很深,我覺得不只給兒子,其實適合所有人看!

   
最喜歡最後一句"無論愛不愛,下輩子都不會再見",讓我想起在美國上中國哲學課時老師常說的:
   
菩薩案前一爐香,修得來世鐵心腸,你能參得了嗎?

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下輩子,無論愛與不愛,都不會再見----送給兒子的備忘錄*

   
我兒:寫這備忘錄給你,基於三個原則:
   
(一)人生福禍無常,誰也不知可以活多久,有些事情還是早一點說好。
   
(二)我是你的父親,我不跟你說,沒有人會跟你說。
   
(三)這備忘錄裡載的,都是我經過慘痛失敗得回來的體驗,可以為你的成長省回不少冤枉路。

   
以下,便是你在人生中要好好記住的事:
   
(一)對你不好的人,你不要太介懷,在你一生中,沒有人有義務要對你好,除了我和你媽媽。至於那些對你好的人,你除了要珍惜、感恩外,也請多防備一點,因為,每個人做每件事,總有一個原因,他對你好,未必真的是因為喜歡你,請你必須搞清楚,而不必太快將對方看作真朋友。

   
(二)沒有人是不可代替,沒有東西是必須擁有。看透了這一點,將來你身邊的人不再要你,或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時,也應該明白,這並不是什麼大不了的事。

   
(三)生命是短暫的,今日你還在浪費著生命,明日會發覺生命已遠離你了。因此,愈早珍惜生命,你享受生命的日子也愈多,與其盼望長壽,倒不如早點享受。

   
(四)世界上並沒有最愛這回事,愛情只是一種霎時的感覺,而這感覺絕對會隨時日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你,請耐心地等候一下,讓時日慢慢沖洗,讓心靈慢慢沉澱,你的苦就會慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美,不要過分誇大失戀的悲。

   
(五)雖然很多有成就的人士都沒有受過很多教育,但並不等於不用功讀書,就一定可以成功。你學到的知識,就是你擁有的武器。人,可以白手興家,但不可以手無寸鐵,謹記!

   
(六)我不會要求你供養我下半輩子,同樣地我也不會供養你的下半輩子,當你長大到可以獨立的時候,我的責任已經完結。以後,你要坐巴士還是Benz
   
(賓士),吃魚翅還是粉絲,都要自己負責。

   
(七)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求別人守信,你可以要求自己對人好,但不能期待人家對你好。你怎樣對人,並不代表人家就會怎樣對你,如果看不透這一點,你只會徒添不必要的煩惱。

   
(八)我買了十多二十年六合彩,還是一窮二白,連三獎也沒有中,這證明人要發達,還是要努力工作才可以,世界上並沒有免費午餐。

   
(九)親人只有一次的緣分,無論這輩子我和你會相處多久,也請好好珍惜共聚的時光,下輩子,無論愛與不愛,都不會再見。

转载自电邮

May 16, 2010

PWTC K3G Job Fair 2010

Yesterday, went for the K3G job fair which held on 14-16 May 2010 at PWTC. There are 500 companies offering over 15000 jobs to who seeking the jobs especially for the fresh graduate like me. We can just apply via online too at JobStreet.com but we can ask more details like company's profile, job scope from the companies there. It is my first time went to this kind of fair. I just bring 5 copies of resume to apply some jobs, not enough. I'm looking some jobs at Ipoh, P.Penang and Selangor.

May 12, 2010

Thomas Cup heat

What sport is popular now? It is definitely badminton. Thomas Cup & Uber Cup is playing now in KL.

In every restaurants, TV shows the badminton games. I had spent my time for few hours in restaurant after having dinner to watch this hot event. The time taken much more than watch a football game. :p

For people who subscribe Astro, they can watch through the channel 801 for Thomas Cup. In addition, M'sia RTM1 has live boardcasting. For people who don't have TV, they can watch through online streaming.

To watch online streaming: here
To see the livescore: here
Time schedule: here

Yesterday, M'sia team was disappointing me after lose the game to Japan 2-3. Today, same thing happen like yesterday. M'sia win the first two games by Datuk Lee and Kean Keat/Boon Heong. After that, Choong Han and second double lose to Denmark make the score 2-2. Last game is played to decide the winner. Fortunately, Hafiz win the last point for M'sia to qualified into semi-final versus China. Hopefully, M'sia can do well in semi-final!

May 2, 2010

Redang Graduation Trip

Last Tuesday, my course-mate and I went to Pulau Redang to enjoy our graduation trip for 3 days 2 nights. Feel excited and relax!!!
Sun Rise in RedangUnfortunately, my Uni life still haven't end due to the accreditation of Engineering Accreditation Council (EAC). I still need to continue study for 2 months more to secure accreditation for my course. Hate it so much!